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After taking a year off in coaching any sport, I decided that I couldn’t handle another season of ______ ( insert sport here) watching coaches ruin the sport for the kids.
I have watched grown adults throw tantrums that I would never tolerate in my own kids. I have been embarrassed for the coaches who stomp their feet and throw the clipboard when a player strikes out. At 8 and 9 years old, kids really could care less about winning or losing; it’s whether they have had fun or not.
This soccer season I decided to conduct an experiment. Since I work with kids for a living, I decided to apply the same principles of behavior modification to the sport of soccer. The focus would be on positive reinforcement for achievement and cooperation and building a team rather than focusing on single players.
American sport culture focuses on the star performers and the supporting positions get little recognition. Soccer really is a sport about cooperation and teamwork. I asked the team parents to cheer for the whole team rather than the scoring player. After all, there are positions in soccer that have little likelihood of scoring, but are every bit as important.
We got off to a rocky start. I had a few parents say that I needed to be more aggressive. Uh, Whatever! Then it clicked! The kids really started gelling as a team. The usual ball-hogging was replaced with cooperation. The more talented players weren’t nagging to play midfield, but were content to play back. It was also more enjoyable to coach a team, rather than a collection of individual players.
As we go into the final game of the season, win or lose, it has been a very successful year.